A Big Change

A beloved family member.
One who is older than any of the kids.
One who gave more love than she ever could have received.
One who will be dearly missed by us all.

The one and only Happy Honsal is spending her last spoiled night on a comfy bed inside a warm house.  She is nearly 14 years old.  Mike and I bought her as our 1st year anniversary present to each other.  She was our first baby.  The first one to dig up ALL my freshly planted tulip bulbs!

This is really hard on Mike and I, but on Juliet as well.  Juliet has always been extremely close to Happy.  They were buddies.  Happy always sat with Jewelz as she did her homework, from the time she started school.  This is the first time my kids have really lost a pet.  I don't count fish, cause we've lost countless and the kids aren't attached to them, so that hasn't impacted them.

But this.

This has been a first.  First time I've had to explain how we put animals down.  Why we have to do it, and that it's completely ok to cry and be sad.

We'd love your prayers.  They will comfort us as we walk this path.  And that we don't get too annoyed with Zoey.  One who just chewed through my vacuum cord tonight.  Nice.

He Loves Me

My husband loves me.  And he speaks to me through songs.  Check out my facebook page and you'll see.  It makes me feel warm and fuzzy inside. ;)

Proclamation of Faith

BIG DAY for this Honsal Family!

What's your favorite?

We like to play this when we can't think of anything to talk about.  Last night we were out to dinner and there was a large group of people sitting next to us.  It was one of those groups who were out just to drink and have fun.  Nothing wrong with that, in my opinion, but they were in a family restaurant.  One lady was drunk and extremely LOUD and foul mouthed.  It was hard not to stare.  We kept trying to ignore her and enjoy our time, but it was hard.  So Juliet piped up with our game....

"So Mom, what's your favorite fruit and vegetable?" So here's a list of our favorites.  Not necessarily because I think you should read it, but so that I don't forget these kinds of things as our days past and I will forget!

FAVS:
Calvin: watermelon, broccoli, carrots, green beans
Mia: strawberries, pineapple, grapes, carrots, broccoli, artichokes
Juliet: strawberries, grapes, apples, artichokes and somethings broccoli

DINNER
Calvin: Shells & cheese
Mia: Spaghetti
Juliet: Stuffed shells

COLOR
Calvin: green & black
Mia: green & blue today.
Juliet: turquoise & pink

DESSERT
Calvin: chocolate Oreo covered ice cream
Mia: chocolate covered strawberries
Juliet: anything chocolate

MOVIE
Calvin: Kung Fu Panda 2 & Toy Story 3
Mia: Rio & Hop
Juliet: How to Train Your Dragon & Rio

PLACE
Calvin: Disneyland
Mia: Exploratorium
Juliet: Monterey Bay

MUSIC
Calvin: Newsboys
Mia: Fireflight
Juliet: Taylor Swift

SONG:
Calvin: Jesus Freak
Mia: Stay Close
Juliet: Strong Enough

CANDY
Calvin: Fun Dip
Mia: Skittles...today
Juliet: Chocolate

THING AT SCHOOL
Calvin: Recess (playing Monsters) & activity time
Mia: art
Juliet: GATE

SUPER FAMILY FUN TIME
Calvin: Wii, Xbox
Mia: Movie night with popcorn
Juliet: Movie Night = America's Funniest Video

SPORT
Calvin: soccer & baseball
Mia: indoor soccer
Juliet: golf & tennis

TIME OF YEAR
Calvin: Christmas
Mia: Easter
Juliet: New Year's

BREAKFAST
Calvin: Mommy's homemade donuts
Mia: Mommy's donuts
Juliet: crumb cake

ANIMAL
Calvin: dogs & tigers
Mia: tigers & zebras
Juliet: zebras & elephants

GAME
Calvin: hide & go seek
Mia: tag
Juliet: crazy 8's & sorry

THING TO DO WITH DADDY
Calvin: play legos
Mia: going on walks with him
Juliet: playing handball with him

THINGS ABOUT DADDY
Calvin: he's handsome
Mia: he smells good
Juliet: he's loving

THINGS TO DO WITH MOMMY
Calvin: play Mario Kart
Mia: talk about school
Juliet: talk and go shopping

THINGS ABOUT MOMMY
Calvin: she's pretty
Mia: she smells good
Juliet: she prays with me

Let's Say "I DO" .....again

I was 20 when Mike and I got married. 

Young. 

In love. 

Crazy. 

Never been to a wedding. 

Had no idea what I was doing........wedding or otherwise!

It's been almost 15 years now, and I want to get married again!  My ideas and tastes have grown and developed so much in that time that I have a new way I want to do it. 

Plus so many of our big wedding gifts have kicked the bucket that it's time to register again! hehehe

But when we do say "I DO!" again, I want Platinum Photography to capture the memories and Deborah Anfuso Giles to do all the food and decorations! 

A girl can dream, right?

2/3 Glowing Reports

And that's only because we haven't received the 3rd one yet.  I'm sure it will be glowing, just as it has been the last 6 grades for Jewelz.  We like to celebrate with each report card.  But I have a feeling it's more for Mike and I than it is for the kids.  They don't seem to even know what an accomplishment a great report card is.  It's like it comes naturally to them, so it's not a huge deal.  For Mike and I, who both wasted away our years in school not demonstrating our capabilities well, we get excited for them.

It's ok to celebrate their successes though, none-the-less! 

Oldie but GOODIE

I came across this tonight and shed a tear. Calvin was 2 here.  I barely remember this stage. I wish my memory was better and could remember all of these moments as the kids grow. It seems that one new memory seems to overshadow the old and then the oldies just fade. Thank goodness for video cameras, I guess!

Baking in the microwave?

I kept seeing these on Pinterest and was dying to try it....

It was a complete HIT!

Ladies Man

While walking home from school with a friend, Cal says, "Would you like me to carry your backpack for you?" 

This is hugely important to me.  We are doing our best to raise a gentleman.  In every way.  He made me very proud when he did this all on his own!

Emotions Run Wild

Excitement.
Joy.
Saddness.
Peace.
Comfort.
Grief stricken.

I feel like a ball of emotions today and I just want to mope.

Early in our marriage, Mike and I joined a small group at our church.  It was lead by an amazing, experienced couple.  Two of the most influential people in my life.  Ever.  A couple who is an example of true dedication to one another.  They had a steadfast love for one another only because of their mutual love of our Lord.  They walked a journey through this earthly life with a companion who drew them closer to the Lord each step.  They had their rough times, but the way they would press on is admirable.
They taught us the joy in marriage.  They taught us the true meaning of Ephesians 6:18.  No matter what, keep on praying.  They are the best role models anyone could have.
I could go on and on, but I think you get the point.

A couple of years ago, Kim and Sharon were going out on a peaceful camping trip to rest in the outdoors which they loved dearly.  They stopped for a night here at our place and we had the most wonderful conversations and times of prayer.  They truly are the easiest and most encouraging people to be around.  It was a great visit.  I wish there were more of those visits because we enjoyed it so much!

Kim had battled cancer for a few years now.  Last night, he went to be with the Lord.  I can imagine what he is doing right now, dancing with his heavenly Father.  When he talked about God, and worshiped Him, the smile on his face was contagious.  I can see it like he's sitting here next to me.  Genuine and full of emotion.  I know, without one ounce of doubt, he's got that smile on his face right at this moment.

Sharon will press on, because that's the type of believer she is.  I wish we lived closer to them now because I need to hug her.

Honestly, our marriage would not be what it is today if it weren't for Kim & Sharon.

We love you two so very much and need you to know again, how much God used you in our lives.

Kim Pick, you are already missed.